marriage its resonates in ever young heart to find his true mate but the ceremony will be major burden for most of people who bear brunt of affulent section big bash marriage ceremony in process of emulation they end up in debts as it not willful burden but a imposed by society just for satisfaction of society and his neighbours we know very well that we cannot afford it but make it . to mantain the status in society but the real theam of marriage was just to get a legal sancation of live together and some relatives are intived for its presence as witness but in recent time irrespective of caste creed religion ever one praticing its occassion to plunder as much as possible from bridal family anfd preconditiond like a sumptuous lunch reception marriage hall and many more traditionals just created by us humans and add a tag called tradition and culture but they real feasible in persent society they could not source to squeez the innocent bridal family
its fact that in india a lady is always treated as burden on family as of her marriage reason but i wonder the bride groom mother demands everything is she not a woman could not understand what other family feels as she through same earlier the bridal family cannot quench the end less desires of bride groom and please them most of middle class families are victims of this tradition
and the programmes like kalyanamasthu or gurudwara prabhand committe suggestion that only ten people should attend marriages its best for the persent society its should be source of joy and happiness but not sorrow and relent tramua.
marriages are made in heaven they cannot be made again on earth by making a hell to most downtrodden people
realitybites earlier ladys were purchased by bride grooms but today the condition is reverse and more over its soon changes and retrogress
many families in ap maharastra rajasthan up mp across india are bearing brunt of it
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